I'm bullied in school, I don't know why. I'm not that like dorky or stupid. I'm pretty except I have a huge nose. But it's as if, well when I'm in school walking through a corridor and the a couple of guys pass us it's always my book they grab and throws on the ground. It is really embaressing, that they do those things in front of my friends. Please answer!
well you should get your friends and gang up on the ppl beaten you up...i dont like sayen this but try to dress cool change your personality (i dont reccomend doin that though) work out and become a wrestler and show em whoes boss. or you could start a yo momma compotition and make sure u get em good
Because whether you're dorky or not, they're probably bad people. I'm guessing there is something wrong with them or their family. They will probably grow up to be obnoxious drunks who will hit people's parked cars in parking lots and drive off. Don't worry, you'll be done with school soon enough. Until then, do sports, it's good for you.
GROW A PAIR!!! Sorry to be so blunt but thats the best way to put it. I had problems like this when i was in school and it all stems from confidence. When your confident about yourself them people can sense it and are attracted to you. I dont know how or why it works but it does. I went from being virtually unknown in 7 8 9 grades to being "the guy" the rest of high school and have carried it on into college. Working on sarcassm helps alot also. It doesnt take much to hurt someone but when you use words to do it then you can destroy your enemys and never lift a finger plus it hurts alot worse. If your in HS then use their weaknesses guys/ small penis, small muscles, crappy car, and things like that. Girls/ make fun of their weight, clothes, family income, or spread some nasty little rumors. Things like that always work you just gotta practice and get good at them.
you could do many things like put your books in a back pack.jk but serously you could tell them to stop or just ignore it.ALL bullys want attention so it doesnt madder if they knock down your books because if your friends are real friends they wont care either
and over time you not caring about the bully .the bully will stop or you will get used to it and wont even be phased.
if your being constantly bullied think about the people that bully you and what it is that you do (if there is a specific think you do) that sets them off. You need to stand up for yourself. Act like it doesn't bother you like you don't care. Like it's no big deal. Bullies only pick on people they think they can either upset or get a reaction from. So act confident even if your not it helps self esteem wise too. When your walking down the hallway hold your books tight so they cant do that, this way there is nothing they can do so it's like you have won
-If you are ever bullied dont take the bullies crap, nobody deserves to be treated that way (hope this helps!)
Enna, I believe you when you say you are pretty, These boys like you but don't have a clue how to express it. Just hang in there time has a way of turning things around. One day one of these guy will be asking you out, then you can be the bully. Hang in there pretty one.
Generally people that are bullies are either so depressed they need to give themselves satisfication by tormenting others. If you don't let this bother you and look past these morons then you will most likely not be bothered by these type of people. People only continue to bully you if you show that it brings you down.
The people might have really crappy lives. They might have low self esteem and maybe just want attention. Don't pay attention and tell a teacher. In middle school right now, that is a huge problem. (I am in middle school.) They may just want you to like them since you say you are pretty. I believe you because that happens to me a lot right now. In the 6 grade hallways boys make fun of me or will say i did something to them just to get me to like them. I know because in class they stare at me. Be the bully when they ask you out at least that is what i do!
Hurting people tend to hurt others. It's an overflow of what's in them. In fact, an old proverb says that "out of an overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks." In short: hurt people hurt people.
I am trying to teach my sons that even if the person is pointing their finger in your face and saying things about you, it's important to know that it is ALWAYS about them and how they are feeling about their own life.
I wonder what it is you get out of being in situations where you get bullied. I mean--if it happens over and over again with different people, do you have a self-downing attitude about yourself that you may be seeking to affirm by allowing yourself to be bullied??
Just don't take it. In my 1st year of secondary school, I was 12 and I got bullied. I'd come back from lunch and my desk would be missing, my bag would be tipped upside down etc. In second year though, I got more confidence and if they made snide remarks, I'd insult them right back. I was extremely sarcastic and didn't take shit and in the end they left me alone. And if they ever tried to butt me out of the way, I'd just shove them and send them flying :) try that! :)