So I have a crush on this girl in my class and she has a crush on another guy from another school. I started talking with her over whatsapp a while ago and after we talked like 2-3 weeks she asked to who you wrote that status , she kept begging and I said that it's for I have a crush on you. She asked for how long do you have a crush on me I said the truth. After that she started talking with me about her crush and she started to make me jealous so I would give up on her which Im not, because she still has a crush on the other guy BUT that guy rejected her. And it has been more than a week I haven't talked with her and I really miss her.
What do I do ??
I even composed her 2 music (without lyrics) with the guitar which I expressed my feelings in them.
Serious Love Problem?
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- 3+ months ago by Avo1998
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- school, talking, girl, love, over, guys, problem, schools, girls, crush, guy
Responses (17)
You sound like a nice guy but you told her how you feel and she doesn't feel the same way. She probably really likes that guy and isn't thinking about anyone else right now. Don't even mention liking her anymore. She might just see you as a friend; don't push the issue because she might just stop talking to you altogether.
Us girls play with everybody's minds, especially guys maybe if you showed the songs and she still didn't like you then I think u should just drop her like a hot potatoe because obviously she's a heartless b@$#h!
P.S. I'm not playing with your mind right now because one of the few girls that doesn't do it every 2 seconds. I'm not kidding.
Honestly, from what I've read, I don't think she's the one for you. You shouldn't waste your energy on her and instead you should move on. You seem like a really sweet guy so I'm sure you'll find somebody else that will love you just as much as you'll love them. Good luck ^^
It was wrong! Whatever that happen you should talk to her. Even though she keep avoiding or whatever, but still you have to talk to her.
You talk to her slowly. You can start with "Hi!" and continue by "you good?" because someone has rejected, for sure they need someone to chat with. So just talk to her. And slowly she will feel safe around you!
she will not go for you because she is busy running after the guy who rejected her. in her mind she knows you are always going to be there waiting since you are a nice guy. she has nothing to lose. so it could be like that for her or it could be that she really doesnt have that chemistry going on. keep her close if you will, but move on from this idea.
Hey. I'm no love expert or anything but you seem like an amazing guy. Maybe this is just a signal that you will find someone better. You should just live the rest of your life freely. You will find someone better, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Everyone goes through heart breaks and I know that personally. Don't make a big deal out of it, just tell her that you're bummed that she doesn't like you back, let her know she's broken your heart and you're not giving up, leave her a bit of space. Who knows? There could definitely be a chance that somewhere in the future, she'll be jealous. I'm going through the same thing actually so know you're not alone. Start conversations but don't seem too desperate, let her know you better, she might find out more and be into you. Good luck m8 :)
wow that sounds really tough i am so sorry that you have to go through that ... i am a girl so maybe i can give you some tips ..... first of all it is soo sweet that u wrote her songs....maybe if she knew that you did that all for her and you kept talking to her and showing her simple acts of kindness then she would see that you really do care... girls love it if you show them you care.... dont give up just yet ... keep trying ... and maybe establish a friendship with her before you try and take it to a higher level ... girls love it if you are sweet and kind to them ... but there is a line between sweet and kind and sappy and gross..... dont cross that line.. be a gentlemen ... and if she keeps blowing you off then find a better girl that does care and that does appreciate your effort.... hope you the best of luck!
I showed her the musics but I didn't tell her that it's for her