How can a virgin break her virginity without going through much pains and also having much bruises?

If your partner knows that you are a virgin and go along slowly with you it will make all the differnce in the world. It don't have to hurt, it might take three or four times of having sex before it starts to really feel good and you start enjoying it. I hope he just don't get on top and start banging away, if this happens remember no means no,you are in control.

its the first time so tell him to be slow and don't get on top.cuz this is the first time then u will enjoy to having sex with less hurting than the first time..