I've dated a girl 7 times. I dont want to see her anymore, but I'm afraid she overreact and take revenge. We have been intimate and it was fun while it lasted, but I don't see myself wanting to be with her long term. I don't know what to do, but I don't want to live in fear of her trying to get me for leaving her.
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Then you don’t do the same. You have to respect that. You ignore her. You avoid her. If this helps, I’ll give all the credit to my brother.
Leaving is not from one side only, if she left you, then its simple to leave her by saying that as she can live without you so now you can also live without her.
on the other hand if she don't want to leave you then leaving her would be a bad idea because your feelings for her will keep on blaming you even after you decide to do so.
Make up an excuse. Tell her that you're moving somewhere and that she can't follow you anymore. She can stop chasing you and being crae crae about you. And then, when you're on your "move" you say a quick goodbye and leave. Go somewhere inside your house where she can never find you . . . if she ever decides to come back . . . and see if you've REALLY moved.
I have sorta been through the same the we like each other than I didn't see myself with him anymore. Then when I let him down he seemed fine but he ended up screwing up my date to a school dance that was a month after we broke up. Wanna know what I did? I just completely removed him from my life all together. I didn't want to do that when we first broke up because I loved having him as a friend but he tryed to get me back for breaking up with him so I removed him. So I guess what im trying to say is...let her down easy and then after a few weeks get back out to dating. Yeah she may be a bit upset at first but she wil get over it and if she doesnt and trys to get revenge on you then let her do what she wants and then just remove her from the situation and your life. Hope I helped!!! :) Good Luck :)
First off try letting her down easy and telling her that you don't won't a relationship rite now, If I were you I would wait sometime to date so she don't get upset and do something crazy but if you happen to get a girlfriend don't rub it in her face (not saying you will) just respect her feelings also don't lead her on. you said y'all have dated 7x make sure that's what you won't to do before you break it off this time and if she is acting that way when y'all break up then y'all should just be friends not saying it won't but most likly it's not gonna work out! Most important don't lead her on after you break it off with her it will just make things worse.
Or you could just do things to get on her nerves and things she don't like so maybe she will break up with you lol jkjk
What if she tries to take revenge on me and tries to ruin my life?