There's this girl I've been seeing. Sometimes, especially lately, I feel like there are times when she ignores me completely. I know she hangs out with a lot of guys, and even though I might be over-reacting, I'm afraid there's someone else.
We haven't been seeing each other for long, not at all, but I'm still worried, because with her, I feel like there's nothing else in the world that matters, and I care about everything she does. I always want to know what she's doing, I'm constantly thinking about her. And when these brief moments occur, I feel scared. I've been with other women, but this is something special. I think, I love her.
Any advice on what I should do to find out, I don't want to go out and ask her if there's anyone else or basically isolating her from her social life, but, I'm afraid.
Thanks in advance for any advice anyone can give me.
I don't know what to do?
- Posted:
- 3+ months ago by TheInfamo...
- Topics:
- girl, love, feel
Responses (2)
You need to step back a little and see the rest of the world - not just her. If she feels your anxiety she might just back off but if you make it a happy place for her to be then she might very well go there willingly all the time. Be strong / confident / warm not overbearing that is what is attractive!
I wish you all the best and what you are hoping for comes to pass
I tried not talking to her for a whole day, ended up with her calling me at 4am just to talk. I had the lead the next day as well, she still ended up calling me twice just to talk. Last night, after we went out for dinner, she asked me how I felt about her, as she though I wasn't giving her as much attention as I used to do. I told her I cared for her, I'd do anything for her, I'd always put her first. not a second after saying this, she told me she loved me. I honestly think this is the single best moment of my life. I love her so much.
Thanks for the advice, you may have just saved my sanity, and my relationship.
Bless you Helen, Thank you.
Yeah.....Wahoooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Hey, if I would have been in your place than, I could have done several attempt to talk to her first, Just start with.... HI Gesture and after 2 or 3 days start talking to her and once you start talking to her for 7 days continuously.......stop talking to her and over react as she did something wrong to you and start ignoring her as if you see her just turn and go away......and very soon she will start taking care of you and one day she will ask you.... for your upside down behavior change.....and say that you like her and you are afraid loosing her after fall in love with her, so you are ignoring and say that actually you started liking her since the very first day that you saw her..........I wanna say, Moment you dare, you start winning girls heart as girls only like who express.
Thanks for the reply. I probably should, it's just.. I care for her so much, I can't get her out of my head. I've been dealing with a lot of troubles lately and she's the only bright point in my life. But, I'll do as you told me. I guess I'll just have to hope for the best, don't I?
Thanks again, your help is very much appreciated.