ive never kissed anyone yet and im scared to kiss, i feel free that ive never kissed anyone but i also want to. my boyfriend mentioned that we should kiss but i said to wait. i want it to be special.
I am having this same exact problem and everyone wants us to kiss but I am definitely socially awkward so yea of course it's my first and I just keep going crazy
I'm in the same situation.you are right now I want to kiss my boyfriend but I'm afraid to kiss him everyone wants us to kiss so much that it put pressure on me I don't know what to do he's alot lot lot lot lot lot lot older then me what should I do any advice and for the record me and him are both adults and are not kids both of us has ever kissed anybody at all so what should I do any advice on that
god i remember my first kiss. i was soooo scared... but i didnt want to seem like i didnt want to so i did and it happened at a park and i felt like a total idiot because i went in to kiss him and made this stupid sound and after i kissed i did this freaky nerdy laugh that i have never heard in my life, then put hand over my mouth and started crying, but he just looked at me and said your my first, omg... i dont blame you tho. you should wait for the perfect moment and just let it happen. idk how old you are, but this is coming from a 13 yr old who had her first kiss when she was eleven. lol
thanks that helped alot...and im 16 so its kinda nerve raking cause i think about it to much
I am 11 and felt stupid because me and my bf were gonna kiss today and i got scared and ran off crying he can after me and said that it is ok if i want to wait and then he wipped my eyes and said luv u and gave me a hug but now he wants to know why i was so scared .what should i do becuz i dont want to sound stupid
i know right im 14
I'm scared to kiss my boyfriend at school as I have been bullied by people who are around him , we've been dating for 3 months but I don't know how to tell him I'm scared about kissing him for the first time. We've spoken about kissing before but it's like he doesn't want to anymore, I'm not so sure if I should kiss him or not . Everyone is forcing us to but I don't know what to do , like we hang out a lot but we just don't know if we should kiss yet or not .
Im 15 i've never had it so ur lucky hey im scared
hey i was once there and worse still i was older than you are so i really wanted it so bad. the thing about kissing is that you can ONLY enjoy it if the chemistry flows so let your relationship get to that point when you connect deeply such that even if you messup you know you messed up your first kiss with someone who wont mind trying it again WITH YOU!!!
i enjoy every moment of kissing these days because i love my boyfriend and it is mutual... try it
I'm Afraid to kiss my boyfriend too it is hard but I realized waiting is not really going to help the situation so tomorrow I'm going to kiss him on the cheek at first and then wait for 2 days before I kiss him on the lips to show that I care. You should do the same thing like me.
When I went to kiss my boyfriend for the first time I was Sooo scared I was afriad it wasn't going to be perfect and it didn't matter if he was a good or bad kisser it was the feelings after the kiss. It could have changed the way I feel in a good or a bad way. And the first kiss is the most important part of the realtionship
I don't know how old you are or him and it kinda makes a difference in how I can answer your question depending on your age..let's say you are less than 18. You shouldn't feel scared or be afraid if you mess up. You could say something like "hey, I like you so much I want to give you my 1st kiss". I promise you, if he has any brains AT ALL and is at least a bit mature, he'll understand from any statement of yours like this that you don't have any experience and he will not laugh at you for it but appreciate the fact he is your first. First kisses can be awkward, funny, clumsy, too much tongue etc, but trust me, it'll be special, cause it's the first. I can tell you about my first kiss, this dude literally stuck his whole tongue in my mouth and asked me later "have you ever kissed before?" on which I replied with no and he said "that's ok, I'm gonna teach you". Of course he was so bad at kissing and I didn't know it at the time cause I had no experience, but he did not judge me at all and we spent about three dates trying to choke each other with our tongues and I'm laughing at it now hahhha. Point of the story, just be honest and tell him how it is. There is a certain excitement boys feel when they know they are girl's first in something :)
Don't try planning out when your going to kiss, when it's the right moment you'll just know, and every first kiss is special.. just kissing him for the first time will make it special.. If you scared your going to mess up or embarrass yourself, doubt you will though, just find a situation like a dance or some situation where you are able to get lost in his eyes, or wrap your arms around him, situations like these make the best moment to lean in for a kiss, don't rush in, slowly go in for a kiss.