Apparently, she doesn't get any more warning than I do. His job supposedly doesn't give them a lot of notice. I get that, and I'm sympathetic. However, I have a unique work schedule as well, and it's difficult to do what I need to (showering and whatever) when there's a stranger in our tiny living area.

My question is this: Am I overreacting to this, or should I confront her and ask for more notice?