Ive been having this problem for so long. Im a 14 y/o girl and I live with my dad since I was 3 because my parents divorced and he got custody. I have a bodyguard since i became 9, before my dad was taking me outside or letting me in my neighborhood with a lot of kids, but there was always some adult there. As soon as i became 9 y/o, he got me a bodyguard and he had to go everywhere with me.
When i was younger i didnt mind, but now i do , because i feel like i have no privacy and this bodyguard is really annoying man, he follows me everywhere and when me and my friends sit on a bench for example, he stands behind me and looks around if someone gonna attack me, lol. Its not fair, my dad always says its dangerous, but my friends can walk around alone, its dangerous for them too, no? Im not some famous or rich girl, i really dont get it.
My dad told me if i ever go away from the bodyguard, he will punish me. And once i did it, when i was kissing a boy. I made the bodyguard to go away, so he did. But when we got home he told my dad and my dad got pissed off , they talked something in his room and then the bodyguard told me to never ask such thing from him again. Then my dad grounded me 1 week no going out!!
I dont know what to do so please tell me if you have some solution or advice for this. I dont want to go live with my mom because my dad is usually rly nice, buys me stuff and doesnt tell me to study and lets me out a lot but with the bodyguard and it annoys me a lot. Also when my friends go on night parties i cant go because my dad always takes the bodyguard with him and other 5-6 men who are coming to our house at night and calling my dad to help some of their friend. Its often like that and i cant go alone because he will ground me. Oh, once i went alone on night party , a friend picked me up and it was ridiculous, he called me, yelled at me and came to my friends house with all of that weird men with him and my bodyguard to get me home :( and he was telling me stupid stuff during the whole drive to home and when we got home he told me "go to your room right now i dont want to see you", he was so mad so i did lol and the next day he told me im not allowed to go anywhere for 2 weeks, without computer and phone but i was sneaking on my phone so it wasnt that bad. But its so annoying and i really need some advice for this.