Okay my friend (sounds like I'm making it up, but it's seriously my friend) is gay & likes his uncle. During summer he went to his uncle's house. Although he has a serious crush on his uncle he doesn't want sex, but just to see him naked. So he seduced him into both of them taking a shower together & his uncle didn't mind. He told me nothing happened just his uncle soaped his back & washed it off. I don't know what to think of this or if he is even telling he truth. I am concerned because this does not seem right & I want to advise him on what to do. Is it incest though ? Or is it normal to shower with someone of the same gender ? Especially a relative ?
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easy problem , first thing : it's okay to like the gender , but not if it's his relative , that's wrong . You'r friend should forget about him and search for a partner who's not his relative . He can talk to him that he might feel something for him , and also to go see a therapist , not because he's gay but he likes his uncle and the therapist usually knows what's best to do .
What about showering with a relative though ? & with one that is your same gender as well as many years older than you ?