My brother and I were estranged for 20 years. He wouldn't let me see his five kids. He recently died and his children, now adults, and I have reconciled. I was so excited that I went out and bought them all Christmas gifts. Well, in planning a Christmas get- together, my niece told me not to get gifts as they're struggling financially this year and can't get me gifts. I could care less if they get me gifts, but I want so badly to give them gifts. It made me so sad that I couldn't give them gifts or share Christmas with them when they were children. And I can't return the gifts I've already purchased. What should I do?