My dad and step mum fight all the time and because my step mum was there for me when I was upset and she helped me she has made me think of her as my real mum. But now they are fighting and they both go on about their pet hates to me and they both say they are going to pack up and leave but hasn't happened yet and they both want me to take their sides. I don't know who to choose. My dad hardly respects the fact that I have my own life and want to do something in life without making it a big deal. But my step mum she listens to everything. But the problem is I don't know what to think or do. They want me on one side, but I can't choose or think straight. It's confusing. I need answers that will help me. What would you do?