i'm new to this site so i have a few questions. i want to ask of how to find the porn i'm interested in but i want to first ask of what is permited. what i want to find is not on a "blacklist" or anything but i want to make sure of what i want to talk about is allowed. so my question is what can i ask about? what kind of language am i allowed to use (swear words etc) and can i ask about anything i want after tagging it appropriately?