I have been in a relationship for over a year and a half and I have been fingered but I really want to stay a virgin till marraige and so does my boyfriend. I have been molested twice this past year by two people and I'm having emotional issues that cause me to regret everything sexual I do. My boyfriend and I are very committed to each other and hope to marry. I have checked online to see if it is hard to stay a virgin till marraige, and most say you might as well give up if you have been fingered. It has discouraged me. I want to stay a virgin for religious reasons. But what if my boyfriend and I get out of control and have sex. Will I feel the regret I usually do? And will it ruin our relationship? Because I don't want to lose him. I love him.