why does everyone love me, then begin to forget me and then start seeing me as someone they don't know until the memory is gone and then they start to not like me then stop caring at all this has left me without a large family that always was there for me and never complained about me. they all have something in there head that makes them hate on me to the point of tears it has destroyed me iam affraid
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A person who pretends to be what he is not; a person whose actions are out of harmony with his words can lead to distrust from others. Examine Yourself. It really does help if we try to analyze our feelings. We can bring reason to bear on the problem, asking ourselves why we are disturbed. Often when we do this we find that our “reasons” are quite petty. Or we may discover within ourselves a motive that we did not realize existed.
The advantage of self-examination is that we then focus on our own share of the problem, which we can do something about, rather than becoming frustrated by focusing solely on the other person’s fault, regarding which we can do little.
Ask yourself each question you posted and look deep within, see if you have contributed to how others feel about you and what would cause them to change towards you. You may need an adjustment in your personality and learn how to appreciate others. Proverb:18:17
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