I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year, and in the last month I have started to speak to another guy who I have class with. The past 5-6 months of my relationship with my boyfriend hasn't been good and we've had so many arguements. I've already spoken to my boyfriend about how we are not working out as well as we should but I always feel guilty as he has said "your basically all I've got". I've been trying to make an effort but this crush I have isn't helping. My crush knows about my situation with my boyfriend and is supporting me in every way. But I really like him and he makes me happy. I have no idea what to do. Also, if I do get with my crush how do I know he would be worth all the hassle? (If he would treat me right) And how would I break up with my boyfriend without him hating me. I still love my boyfriend, he's been very nice to me, I just feel any sparks anymore. Thanks for taking time to read this.
I have started to like this guy back I have a boyfriend?
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- 3+ months ago by Latestlucia
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- boyfriend, dating, guys, guy
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Any choice you make you might regret. Just make the choice you can live with. If you go with your crush, he might be the same guy as everyone else (once you get used to him and get to know him better).
My personal answer to this is don't get serious until you're done high school. I say ditch your current boyfriend (you don't have to) and don't go out with anyone else. You can talk and flirt with your crush but DO NOT go out with him. If you're a teen, wait until you're a little older...you'll think "why the hell did I go out with that guy?!" when you're in your 20's.
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you're welcome. talk more if you need help
Thanks, that actually sounds like a good plan. I might talk with the boyfriend and tell Ive got a lot on my plate atm and need some space for school. And then I could talk with my crush and explain that I wont date just flirt with him.
Thanks a lot