I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years, I'm planning to ask her to marry me soon. My problem stems from a stupid mistake I made almost 3 years ago. At a point, our relationship was really uncertain and we were doing the long distance thing for a few months. I was weak and cheated on her, I obviously still regret my mistake immensely, but I haven't told her. Two months after I cheated, she cheated on me, but she told me right away. I forgave her, seeing it like the universe/karma getting back at me. Since then we've had one rough patch, but I'm 100% positive that I want to spend my life with her. Now the actions of my idiotic past self are coming back to haunt me, and I feel she has a right to know, but I have no idea how to tell her. Advice?
true she sure does have a right to know she toldout what she did its time to tell her what you did if the situation shouldn't be so bad you made it through the hurricane now your taking on the dust storm and the part that can make a big deal isn't it might hurt a bit cause she'll say how come you didn't tell me i told you so now own it and take care of it time can heal