Hi I am a girl and i just discovered I'm bi. My best friend and I are really close but I think I've developed feelings for her. You see she always gets up close to my face and when she does I just want to kiss her. She is bi too she told me but i dont know if she likes me back. She said she is more into guys but she likes girls too. I want to tell her that I like her but I am afraid she won't like me back and I don't want to ruin our friendship. I kind of get hints that she likes me because she always sits on my lap and asks me to carry her. We are the same age. And today when we were writing stuff she rested her head on my shoulder and I rested my head on hers and she didn't move. I think she likes me and I really like her but I dont want to ruin our relationship. Should I tell her?
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You have to make the difference between friendship and relationship.
Even me, I am doing with a girl like that, I hold her hands and I put my head on her shoulder but nothing more.
It's purely friendship but do not combine in you mind that it should always be relationship!
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If one is bi curious aren't you just a heart beat away from being bisexual ?
I'm literally in the exact same position. I'm in love with my best friend but i've gone 2 years without telling her. She's bi too, and I'm contemplating telling her. We've kissed multiple times but they were drunk kisses, and just recently she's kissed me sober but it was like a peck. I think she may have something for you so you should go for it. lol although i should definitely be taking my own advice as well.
It is almost scary how similar our situations are. I got a crush on my best friend, and realized I was bi. This was a few weeks after she came out to me, and she hasn't told any other friends or family members. I am still in the closet and know I want to tell her but I don't know whether I should tell her about my crush or not. I want to tell her because she will probably be cool about me liking her but I don't know how I will handle it if she knows and doesn't like me back. Why is this so complicated!!!
Yes! Tell her. But if you havent already tell your friends either altogether ir personally. If you have a close friend another bff tell her first or something or personally. I have a bi friend and she likes domeone in our group they are going out and all and u was really upset when I realised that I was the only one in our group not told and I had to find out for myself...
Hey i think im bi curious and i also like my best freind. She is Bi and me and her pretend areare wifes and we cuddle and hug and say i love you and hold hands and stuff. Should i tell her im bi and that i like her. And do you think she likes me?
i am in a similar situation but i dont know if my friend is bi help i dont know what to do also some context we have played truth or dare and we have messed around ALOT and she seemed really into it so i think she likes me and i really want to ask her out but i am scared. HELP!!! WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?
I'm in a similar situation. What I'm trying to do, as you'll see if you look at the similar question I posted, is find a way to tell her. I think this is the best option: to be honest. However, I'd say (and I know this is hard, I'm trying to tell myself it's nothing to be terrified of) try to get her alone and tell her. How you want to say it is up to you, but maybe start with something about being bi? I don't think you mentioned whether she knows you think you're bi or not but if not tell her this first and let it sink in for a day or two, then get her alone again and just try to be as open and honest as possible. From what you've said it does sound like she may like you, but try not to assume to much as that could end in embarrassment. Once you've been honest though, if she's liked you she will most likely say so, and if not if she is a true freind she will still be friends with you and not mind.
Good luck!! I hope I have been helpful.
I'm in a similar situation. What I'm trying to do, as you'll see if you look at the similar question I posted, is find a way to tell her. I think this is the best option: to be honest. However, I'd say (and I know this is hard, I'm trying to tell myself it's nothing to be terrified of) try to get her alone and tell her. How you want to say it is up to you, but maybe start with something about being bi? I don't think you mentioned whether she knows you think you're bi or not but if not tell her this first and let it sink in for a day or two, then get her alone again and just try to be as open and honest as possible. From what you've said it does sound like she may like you, but try not to assume to much as that could end in embarrassment. Once you've been honest though, if she's liked you she will most likely say so, and if not if she is a true freind she will still be friends with you and not mind.
Good luck!! I hope I have been helpful.
I told her I liked her, we are now dating. We have been dating for 5 months now :))