Going away with my girlfriend late this year for a working holiday for a whole year. She wants to travel around in a campervan, but we dont even live together and we will be around each other all the time kinda.. Starting to have doubts bout it... Anyone out there with advice?
Is it a good idea to travel with girlfriend, of 5 months, around New Zealand for a year?
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- 3+ months ago by worriedbo...
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If you are having doubts about it, follow ur instincts. I lived with my boyfriend too soon, we were together for 4 years and the whole relationship was nothing but fighting, and lying. Living together too soon, even for a year or however long the trip, may come with problems. Talk to her about how you feel, that is something you two need to talk about. Be honest with her, and don't say yes to the trip unless you definatly are sure you want to do it.. Ur instincts are usually always true, there is a reason for your worries.. GOOD LUCK
most travelers traveling in a camper van in NZ spend a lot of time living in hostels and doing things like couch surfing , it is a great country to travel in but living actually living full time in a camper van without a start up relation ship [living together] could be a bit much really.If you do travel suggest spending time at a great hostel full of young people mixed dorms makes almost of things 'Unusual" "difficult" distracting any way if you do startoff try some of the above .