Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years now and we can get married in 2 more years he is going to be a navy seal then how is are life going to be how much will I see him and talk to him when he deploys and when he goods to training?
Me and bf getting married in 2 years he is a baby seal?
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Me and my bf are getting married in 2 years he is going to be a navy seal then what is it going to be like when we get married how much of each other are we gonna see like when he is deployed and in basic how much contact will we get with each other
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View your situation you need a direct answer that you will probably not like. Seals are trained to the highest level and their tasks can be very dangerous and come out of the blue. To maintain that high level they need constant exercizes/training. That requires total dedication by the men doing it.
A wife/family will always come second, as orders have to be obeyed. You will have to face quite long periods of sepration, not knowing where he is and what he is doing. Not only does that mean you would have to bring up a family mainly on your own, but in spite of your own worries and uncertainties he will need your total support at all times.
You are not entirely on your own, other wives are in the same boat and suport each other and the Navy also has things to help out if its particularly rough. You need to estimate if you have the inner resilience it takes to be able to handle such a life. I was a militray pilot for over a decade. Its not nearly as rough as what Seals have to handle, but, nonetheless, it was quite a strain on my wife at times.