Hi, Im 20 and my boyfriend is 18. I have been with him for nearly two years now, and our sex life used to be great. I am his one and only sexual partner, and made sure that he was ready before we had sex, we have been sexually active together for basically the 2 years. our sex life was amazing, I loved it. It was better than anything that i had experienced before, he was just up for trying new things with me. recently we both moved away from home and have gone to uni together, now we live just down the road from each other, rather than half and hours drive. However now we are here he has lost interest in sex. He admitted to me the other day that he doesn't look forward to it and that he doesn't enjoy it, like he used to. When i try to talk to him about it, he closes off and gets in a grump about it, telling me that he came over to see me and cuddle not for me to have a go at him about sex. I don't think he will ever talk to me about it properly. I am not blaming it on him, I even said that maybe its me, that I want it too much. He batts my hand away when i go near his package. I don't know what to do any more. Its got to the point where it is really affecting our relationship. Since we have been at uni, he hasn't been able to satisfy me like he used to, he is a lot quicker than he used to be, and won't want to try a round 2. He has said that he feels that he can't satisfy me anymore, but i don't see how having no sex is going to help that. please help me, I don't know what to do. ..... any advice?
He probably doesn't want to have sex with you because he doesn't think he's good enough for you anymore. Next time you guys have sex, fake everything. Pretend he's doing really good. Fake your orgasm. But don't over do it. If that doesn't work. Slip some viagra in his drink. OR! Get really drunk with him and have some drunken sex. That's always fun.