slamming me against da wall I say wat I did he say I was being stupid nd dat I do not listen to him but I could not hear him he was calling me but my music was so loud nd so he is kicking me punishing me hitting me wit a bat i try calling da police but he does not care at all he say when he get out he coming after me I mean we got kids
The police won't let him do anything, if you tell them what happened and what he's like. There are special programs and protocol for women and children in your very situation!.. At least call and talk to the police when he's not around, and find out what your options are.. You and your kids don't deserve that. Trust me, your kids will be much better off in the future if you take action. My dad was both emotionally and even a little physically abusive to my siblings and I as kids, my mom couldn't leave for financial reasons, so even to this day she's still with him. And even though we love our mum very much, we sometimes can't help but feel a bit of anger toward her for not doing something sooner, and getting us out of that situation. Living with your abuser causes a lot of psychological issues.. you and your kids both need freedom... I know it's tempting to think "well, the outbursts are temporary, the dust settles"... but no.. there are lasting repercussions on the psyche. Plus, why should you have to tip toe around, walking on eggshells, trying not to upset him??.. That's not fair to you! You should be able to relax, and feel safe in your own home.. and blast your music as loud as you want!..