My son doesn't listen to me, he yells insults at me, he says he hates his family, and he wants to run away, but he never does. I know he loves his family very much, and I get that he wants to start a new family, but ... he doesn't know where to start. I told him that he is not going to run away, he is going to be my family. He ran away once, when he was 8, but I called the police on him and they brought him back 2 days later. He cried in my arms. I was depressed for days, knowing, that my son had gone to the police station. I cried in my hands and my son wouldn't talk to me for 4 days. I asked him to set the table last night and he said, "No! I won't do what you tell me! I'm sick and tired of you telling me what I can and can't do! I hate you, I hate dad, I hate Jake, I hate everyone, including God! I want to be free! To do whatever I want! I don't want to ever see your face again!" I stood there, my feelings just ... crushed underneath my feet. I cried for days.
Please help me with my son! He is 9 and has trouble behaving himself!!!!!!!!!!