My girlfriend is in America and I'm in china. I've been here for a month and have 5 more to go. But my girlfriend feels like she can't do it. She tells me she loves me and that she's been waiting for someone like me. But then the fact that our relationship was in a rocky place before I came, it's making her think twice. She says since she was already feeling iffy about us being in a rocky road, me leaving for 6 months just makes it harder to be positive. And doesn't know if she has the love or strength to try. What can I do? I see a lot of good coming out of this relationship if given the chance. And I know things are slowly changing so when I get back things will be better.
Could my long distance relationship work?
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- 3+ months ago by Mrjessepina
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- work, china, america, girlfriend, distance, feel, relationship, month, long distance, relationships
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If you don't already do this, then try to talk to her everyday! The key to keeping up a long distance relationship is communication. Send her goodmorning texts and what not. Skype as much as you can. Just don't stop the communication flow! A cool idea is to do that movie watching date online. Its like skype but you and her can watch a movie together in real time! Good luck!
Well... I had a relation like this a time ago.
As i can give you a good tip. Use somthing like facebook or gmail to contact her a lot of times. Try to messige her how important she is for you. Gife nice comments on her photo's. This way its like you are always with her, and she is with you.(but dont force her to go on inyernet evry time, she will do it)
And show her your love and feelings for her, show her no american boy can replace you.
As you handel this good, you will sie her again!
I would sit down and talk about the "future" that alot of us dont want to think about. Talk about where do you see this relationship goiong and how long will you two have to be in a distance relationship before you can be together in the same area. Also, I would make a pros and cons list of being in the relationship and discuss it with one another. Lastly if you are fully devoted to having a long distance rewlationship for awhile go for it! Just make sure that she isnt using it as an excuse for not being with you. I know this is cliche but "if you are meant to be, it will happen". Lastly don't put to much pressure on it, live in the now and enjoy eachother. If she loves you like she says that distance will defiantly be worth it.
Yeah we talk on a daily.. Texting throughout the day and my mornings, her nights we FaceTime.
I don't have a laptop. Would that movie thing work through phone??
Thank you for your time and your words. Truly appreciated.