I am dealing with problems at school. My friends and my boyfriend don’t really like to hang out with each other and are pulling me away from the other. My friends are not letting me sit by my boyfriend during lunch sometimes because they don’t really want to sit by him and that affects me. It is almost like they are trying to make me chose between my boyfriend or my friends. Either I give up the one person in my life who really cares about me or the only friends I’ve ever had. Is there a way they my friends and boyfriend could get along without me having to give one up?
Well, that would be hard. If they are really your friends, they will understand that he matters to you and they will adjust not your boyfriend or you. But if they are being mean and letting you choose then I would say you choose your boyfriend because they are not a supportive friend.