... years old and I haven't seen him in 5 years. he lives in Missouri and I'm from Florida . his mom left me before he turned 1 year old and had me put on child support right away. I moved from Missouri because I couldn't find work up there in a small town of 1500 people so I moved back to Florida where I'm from. got behind in child support cause I was unemployed for a while but for the last couple years I've been paying on my regular support and my back support plus I have him on my medical and dental insurance. and since he is in Missouri i don't know how I can get the courts involved and I can't afford a lawyer... please help, any advice would be appreciated. my son dosent even know who I am and it's not fair to me