I seem to have fallen out of love with my husband. I tried to convince myself that I love him but that's not working. He is trying really hard which makes me feel horrible but the feelings are gone. I'm afraid to tell him because he use to hit me, he hasn't in almost s year now, but I'm afraid this will make him really mad. That's probably the reason I don't love him the physical abuse stopped but the verbal hasn't he made me get rid of all my friends and said its not a good idea to make new ones. I can't live like this anymore but I am to afraid to tell him. What do I do.....
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I'm sure you want to be honest with him, but it may be best if you wait on telling him that you don't love him. You may need to focus on you at this time. Counseling is a great way to find out why you have attracted this situation into your life. You may find that it is a pattern that started way before your husband. Sometimes when we are afraid of owning our own power. Sometimes we stay in difficult situations because of money or being scared of being alone. If money is an issue there are many free or cheap resources out there to help you improve your life or situation. If you are spiritual there are many prayer request sites out there too. You need healthy support; try to find a support group online. Blessings to you!