I need help please ladies?

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I need help please ladies.

There is this girl at work. I like her but she has a bf .

1) I caught her looking at me few times. 

2) She has caught me looking after few times

3) We speak , we text on a computer chat but I have to text first and she most often gives me short answers but if I ask something cool then she will elaborate more. 

4) She use to joke around flirt a lot but only directly to me like in company of other people without them noticing. But never over texts.

But today I think I blew it because I texted her little too much over this PC instant messenger about random stuff but nothing related to me liking her (if you know what I mean) . I think that she knows now for certain I'm into her. Now immediately after this happened(texting on instant messenger) she started to ignore me for the rest of the day. I know tomorrow she will do the same. 

What do I do?

Remember she has a bf. 

Also do you think she likes me ? I don't want break up her relationship but maybe one day if she breaks it off with him she will remember me.

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Maybe she likes you, and you can tell her your true feeling and wait for her reponse

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As a girl and understanding what that would be like, I would tell her your feelings about her. I like this one guy but I don't want to be the one to make the first move. Girls are like that. If she says she doesn't like you then at least you know and don't have to worry. I would go to her privately, express your feelings, and wait for a response.

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Wait until they aren't together anymore and after a month or so and if she keeps looking at you in a certain way and it feels right, ask her out on a date.

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i think she likes you it does'nt matter she is having a bf who knows what will happen tommorow . and it shows that she is much intrested in u then her present bf it may be because she is having a bf that's why she can't expres her feelings what she have in her heart for you .so, don't worry be cool everything will be alright as time permites.wish u best of luck.....and keep it on

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Act like you always have. Pretend nothing happened. Yes, she does like you. But not enought to leave her boyfriend. I'm sure if she didn't have one she would date you. You scared her off. She is only testing the waters with you. Act like you always have. Enjoy the casual flirting. But I would not set my heart on her she is taken. Girls like to be liked. Just because one flirts doesn't mean she is your new girlfriend, sorry we like to tease.

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Have a double date .Try something new .

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If a relationship is stable it can't be broken up by someone else. Maybe she's not 100% happy in her relationship.

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Well what i noticed is that if you make her laugh a lot and try to hang out sometimes other then school, she might find out something different and special about you. (( Just never make a joke of her))... Hope that helps

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I guess ur her work crush. Don't get hurt

I need help please ladies?

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