you and yo ex broke up in september 2010 after she threatened you if you left her she said TRY ME. the relationship ends and you all happen to see each other last year in october 2010 and she was with someone yet didnt introduce you, she sat there very angrily ballin up her fist. a few months go by and its now may 2011 and you all happen to speak breifly and yo ex was still pissed at you over ya'lls break up and it is now the year 2012 and she texts you sayin we should catch up, she was angry for almost a year over the break up and all of a sudden shes contacting you sayin we should meet up somewhere so we can catch up.
she wants to go to the movies next week, I find all this odd *** hell, we aint spoke in over a year and now all of a sudden you wanna see me, she has threatened me in the past and held anger and bitterness for me for over a year. my fam thinks this is a set up and she may try and hurt me physically. they are leaving the decision up to me. but I dont know what to do.
i texted her today and said im sorry for being so rude the other day, I just dont feel comfortable being around you after what happened between us but I dont mind us catching up over the phone and she said sasha its okay everything is fine, no harm done and now she wont even talk to me. I dont get it, if she was over me and still didnt want a relationship or wasnt going to physically hurt me (i think she admitted her guilt) I dont think that wouldve been her response. is this chick so in LOVE with me that she just refuses to accept a friendship with me (which i offered with phone covo). otherwise I dont know why she wont speak to me. do you all think she may set me up when i least expect it due to her anger issues? would this be considered domestic violence? should I watch my back? did i do the right thing? thanks