my bestfriend is sitting with a guy on the bus to an excursion that our class is going on, I only have her in that class as my friend, and a guy thats my friend and i kind of like him, well they are sitting together and i have to be by myself because thats how my friend is she would rather sit with him then me anyway what can i do to make my friend feel bad i know its not nice but she is blowing me off alot lately to hang with him, help