My friend always talks about how she hates her life anytime something she doesnt wnat to happen happens. Anytime something bad happens she says stuff like how she wants to cut, kill, stab herself. How do I help her?
Answers (2)
Be yourself +talk with her + listen carefully
to her.
Ask her why she feels that way?
Why would killing / stabbing herself be the
answer?
If she tells you why shouldn't she?
Say something like....
Because I'd miss you +so would others.
Tell her she has a lot to live for....
.....it mightn't seem that way now...
Later talk to a trusted adult..counsellor etc
Tell them details +ask for help.
The best you could do is listen to her reasons why she want to do that what is her reason why she hate her life and what is the problem, let her feel that she is not alone and you are always there for her to listen on anything that she wants to say cite some things that she is good with than you make her feel confident or tell her about some people that is less fortunate than her and let her eyes see how bless she is even just by living another day of her life that is already a blessing and point to her that killing or hurting herself is not the solution to all her problems. Tell her that problem are part of everybody's life and how can she change that things that she doesn't want in her life if she will die that early or kill herself