I am a single father of a 14 year old "out" high school teenage girl. I am perplexed as to how to apply traditional model "dating" rules to this situation. I have two grown straight children and the rules were standard. But my house has been the "slumber party" for the last couple of years for both her straight, lesbian and bi friends (some are out some are not). My daughter's girlfriend has parents who do not know her status. The big question - What are the sleep over rules? Straight girls sleep together all the time. But do I let her straight friends share her bed but not her "girlfriends"? I am so confused but want to be fair AND proper.