... was gone, i was afraid to confront the 2 lowlifes, did not tell my husband who would get really mad, what should i do
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Learn the lesson. Do nothing else. An accusation sans proof will get dismissed in court.
If the money was stolen, the guy might blow it on Crystal vodka but you can ease your mind if you think of something more benevolent, such as he stole the money in desperation because his dear mother, his only living relative, must have a new tank of oxygen, or die of advanced mesothelioma.