Why does my girlfriend keeps telling me to find a job, etc,.?

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It's really annoying when my girlfriend tells to "find a job" or "you need learn how to count money." I hate it. I love her, but I can't find a  find a job because I have brain damage and I can't learn how to count money. Counting money isn't important. Ever since she has had a job, she has been paying all the bills, buying everything thing we need. Is there any other way I can tell her that I cannot work, or break up with her? Please help?

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If you have medical disabilities that prevent you from holding a job . Then apply for disability..  She might be saying get a job because you spending more money than she making.  The counting money.  Could mean learn the value of money. Learn to budget your money better.  Sometime people say get a job if you want money or need more money.  . Counting money also along those same thought of mind.  Every one in today world need tight net budgets. Anyway that what it sound like to me and what first came to mind.  There are job programs out there to help disabled people to at least work part time jobs. . As for break up with her I wouldn't.  If she stands by you and love you. Stay with her.  I know allot of men out there who have brain damage who can't find love. They lost sad and lonely.

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There are really only three things a man can do: 1) Feed a family 2) Fight people 3) Make babies. Fighting is illegal in many or most cases, and anybody can make babies, so if you don't make some money to buy food then you are pretty much a basket case.

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Do you have a drivers license and drive a car?  If you do you can get a job.

Have you applied for disability and if not why not?

I believe she signed on to be your girlfriend not your caregiver.

Why does my girlfriend keeps telling me to find a job, etc,.?

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