Me and my boyfriend having been dating for almost 7 months I am 21 weeks pregnant. He says that he is not sure aboutovimg in together and taking in first child. He says that he loves me and that's not gonna change but when I try to have a discussion on were the future lies whether he move in with me or me him or we love be apart and raise this child. He recently told me that he didn't see this as being serious first off and that hurt. He is not sure about being responsible for my other kid but I told him when we started dating that my son and me were a package deal. Now he says he feels like I'm rushing him. I told him we need to sit and discuss the pros and cons of each decision as far as moving in and he wants to avoid it. What should I do? Feeling very confused
So you let this guy share your bed when he doesn't want to share your life, and you made a baby with a guy who doesn't want to support a baby. Yep, "confused" is a good description. It's a bit late to start thinking about what to do because there just isn't anything you can do now.