She has a couple glasses of wine a day for no reason, then when when she drinks hard she drinks to get wasted. I dont care about drinking much. I like to when i am hanging with friends but I don't like to get wasted. However, I enjoy smoking herb and I typically smoke a couple times a day. I just feel it isn't as bad as drinking, because i always have control of myself and im totally responsible and motivated. When i drink I don't feel the same. I feel like alcohol is bad for your health and i feel like crappy when i do. The think she doesn't like is that weed is illegal and she gives me a hard time about it, but she can't say anything else is bad about me. The only time we've fought is when she drinks too much. What do you think would be the best way to handle this ?
Am I a hypocrite to ask my girlfriend to quit drinking so much when I like to smoke weed?
Added 3+ months ago:
I forgot to add I haven't been smoking for 6 weeks now because I am going to look for a new job. I don't know if that's important, thought I would throw it in there.
Responses (2)
well....there could be a lot of views to this question.
in my opinion, u shouldnt be smoking weed AT ALL. or even smoking tobacco to be honest with you. for one, weed is illegal, and i dont blame ur girlfriend for giving u a hard time about it. so, secondly, smoking tobacco (normal cigerettes) is bad as well for ur health so...
smoking and drinking r both as bad as eachother. just that smoking weed is illegal!
i think u could stop smoking week altogether and negotiate with her.
maybe u stop smoking weed (for ur own sake and health) and she cuts down drinking?
hope this helped :0)