We have 4 kids My kids don't know him and she forces them to kiss them and hug him like they would there Dad, She leave's the kids with him
should I have some Concern here, I'm the father of the kids
Can I Stop My Stop my Wife from letting the kids see her New Boyfriend for 6mos till the divorce is?
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- 3+ months ago by brian19750
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- kid, dad, force, leave, wife, boyfriend, hug, news, kids, divorce, hugs
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if you file something in court that states your concerns it might be better to have a attorney do this if you have a attorney if your on your own then you would have to go to the courts and put it in the judge to hear it if your kids don't want to kiss him or hug him thats their right do you know if he has a criminal back ground you could get information that way i also think its public record or if you know his last name you could do a check on line other then that it would be up to a judge
Oh hell no!!!! You have to be a man and set boundaries!! Those are your kids to and you have say. You need to have a long stern convo with your ex wife. 6months!! she don't even no him!!. She sounds like a bad mom. You can NOT no someone fully in just 6 months. At least wait till she knows that, that guy is the one, because what happens if that dude don't work out, she gunu bring another "daddy" to her kids. She doesn't even no this guy for all you know while you both are not their, he could be abusing your kids. You need to also talk to your kids and tell them they don't need to do anything they don't want to do, especially when it comes to moms new boyfriend. That is none of their business, and the mother should not get her kids involved in her unstable love life.
Your welcome :)
You see males have a different view of things, i mean yeah her forcing the kids to do this stuff calling him dad and stuff is wrong it should be the kids choice. But it dont have to be blood to be a daddy, i just think the kids should know the difference like mine does she know that my fiance isnt her really dad just for the simple fact she goes around calling him babies daddy, but she also calls him daddy but she always has and i never made her, just make sure if the kids continue to call him dad that they grow up knowing who is who when it come to real father....cause thats like me saying i shouldnt call my step dad, dad because he aint my real father, but he raised me and was their for me. Just continue to be their for your kids and i dont think you will have a problem, you never know this man might be a good guy and it should be what makes those babies happy.
Wow cool answer your right I need to be a man and do what I can To protect my kids. thanks.