... time, in my opinion he has a really handsome face and everything although, what bothers him is that he has had a deformity since he was young, his rib cage is deformed, not so you would notice normally, just when he is topless and for example, he wouldn't go swimming with me the other day and won't do anything which requires him to be topless. I understand his insecurities but what can I do about it? I don't have a problem with it but it doesn't seem to convince him and he always gets upset if you try to mention it too much. What can I do?