I got a girl in my class called Emma and I really have a major crush. It looks rediculous When she walks into the class and everyone laughs at my face. People know I like her because I told my friend and she told Emma. But the problem is that she hates me. How can I get her to like me without doing it like some mother@&$!?@s in my class? Please ANSWER
Sorry that she hates you or so it seems. What I would do first is try to find out why she hates you and try to fix that, but dont change yourself. Second, be extra nice to her. Help her on her Math, invite her to sit next to you, anything like that. If she seems to like that, then you should ask her out. The worst that could happen is she could say no. Hope I'm of help!
Well, there are three options. The first thing you can do is move and try to get your ego to recover. After all, girls hate when boys try to ask them out after they have been rejected. The next option is to try and impress her and get her to like you. But remember to ask her out. The final option, which I recommend, is to find a girl that you like who is somewhat popular but doesn't have half the class as friends. Flirt with her, and then ask her out. Do it within 2-3 weeks of beggining your flirting otherwise she will tell everyone that you have a crush on her, and in elementary, that is social death. However, if you ask her out first, her reaction will be completely different. Almost all the time she will say yes, because in elementary, it's a new experience that all girls want. From there, if your happy and your relationship survives for more than a week, good for you. If it didn't work out, then all the other girls will want you, trust me. From their, you can select anyone (the friends of your previous girlfriend won't go out with you, that's why you want her to not have lots of friends) and you can date tons of chicks. But, if you're still looking for a relationship with your original crush, ask her, as she is afraid to ask you out because a) you are now extrodanarily popular and the envy of all the guys, and b) since she rejected you, she's afraid that you will reject her as well and make her look desperate. So you need to ask her out yourself. She will probably like you and will say yes. While you're together, you need to get her to like you for you and not because of what you did. Warning, of you go along this path, a lot of your girls and popularity will go down. And it won't be easy to get your rep back in middle/junior high/secondary school. The girls there will be completely different. But if you take the other path where you keep your popularity, just date 1 or two girls during the summer and Boom, in 6th grade of elementary/middle school, you still have that rep. Warning, if you take this path, you'll find the you'll consume a lot of time thinking or being with girls and will have less time for other, more important things (family, school, friends, hobbies).
This is coming from a sixth grader who has successfully used this strategy.
wow you have a "major crush"? haha wow youre only in 5th grade. Girlfriends and Boyfriends arent even real in 5th grade. you dont even know the definition of whate those GROWNUP WORDS mean. Im glad that she hates you because you dont need a girlfriend at your age. And you also shouldnt swear. youre not even cool.