I absolutely adore a guy [no name to protect privacy], who's 3 years younger than me. He's at my school, and we meet during lunchtime and after school, and he waits for me everyday after class. During exams, my papers finished at 11 30 while his finished at 10, but he would wait for me, and we used to sit and chat for a while everyday.[mostly about girls, I like blonds, he prefers brunettes, but that's beside the point]. I get a feeling that he likes me a lot too, but how can I be sure?
And he's going out with my cousin, and we had a slight row about that, but I can trust her with him. He never tells me lies. I wouldn't even imagine having sex with him or with another boy, of course, but I still love him a lot and I long to have those late night conversations we used to have in school days...Now it's holidays and he's gone to London, so...
I have a best friend and it took 3 years to get to know him well, but with this guy [3 years younger guy] we sort of instantly clicked and in a matter of weeks we became inseparable and he's a better friend than my best friend always was. It's like he can read my mind. He completes my sentences and knows what I'm talking about even when I don't. And, now that holidays have come, I just wanna be with him again... We have soooo much fun talking movies and well, some stuff on the net. He doesn't have a cell, so I can't phone him......
And my mom seems to hate him, just cause we both shared a bottle of Thumbs Up the other day and of course cause she think's he's spoiled, but he's not! He's the least spoiled guy in his class, maybe even in the whole school. He's rather independent and confident.
How do I get my mom to like him[and get his parents to like me too of course]? My mom hasn't even met him, and she says you cant be friends with a guy who's 3 years younger than you, but I can't bring myself to explain to her that age is just a number, friendship goes much deeper than age. Around him I can be comfortable and just be myself and I don't have to put on plastic fake smiles and false laughs.
Please help me! And don't say I'm gay cause I'm not. I have a very much feminine girlfriend and no sexual desires for men. Plus he's straight, so it wouldn't matter anyway.