So their is this boy in my class that is really handsome and so hot he plays lacrosse and it makes me so horny when user him sweaty in p.e and stuff he is playing football and he is on my team and I do not want him to go a round saying to everyone that I am gay but I really like him I love this kid but do not want to be gay, I think people will make fun of me and not like me and I think I will be rejected and everyone will make fun I me and be mean but u wanna be with this boy so much but I feel sad a bout the people that will make fun if me;( I don't know what to do and I don't even know if he is gay I think he is straight but idk please help people thanks!!!!!!
I am a boy and I like this boy but feel like I don't want to be gay because people will be mean.:(?
- 3+ months ago by Anonymous
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Added 3+ months ago:
Sorry for the spelling mistakes user was suppost to be "I see" I think but idk if this changes things but I am 12 ear old and a boy.:)
try to hint him sometimes , like how much you admire him , try and express it in a way like you are impressed by his talent .. just to get to know him more first then you'll know how he would react to things , and you'll come to know by time if he is straight or gay ... by do it step by step...
I think you're kind of, small, to become gay, but wtf! I'm 13 and half gay! Here is what you should do: as a boy, you have desires. To feed ur desire, you must do what your body wants: this means, go to him and do this (it worked with me)
-You: Hey. It's emberresing to ask, but do you watch porn? PLEASE DON'T TELL ANYONE I ASKED!
-Him: No! (or yes. Either way you continue)
-You: Have you ever experienced the 'Tackle'?
-Him: What's that?
-You: It happens when you touch another boy's softies and does business with them. I know it seems disgusting but it gives you the GREATEST felling in the universe! REALLY! (and begin describing it to be great.) I've done it twice. I can't believe a guy like you didn't!
-Him: mmmm I Don't know...
-You: I'll help. At recess meet me at the school toilet. Only once. I'm doing this for you, man. Think about that awesome feeling! THE TACKLE!
-Him: Okay. It seems great!
and so while doing it, try rubbing his body, inserting your finger in his ass, sucking his dick, playing with it, even masturbating it (it's when you move the dick up and down quickly. It gives an awesome feeling after a while. Be careful, though, masturbation exports the sperm from his body so be careful not to filth up your clothe.) Then, He only gets out and checks if there was someone and after the coast it clear, you come out too. This might make him your first male boyfriend! But know the timing and plan who will answer if you were asked "Who is it?" Oh and let me know if it worked and send me his picture ;-) I wanna see what Prince Charming looks like from your point of view :-P
Im 12 too but a girl :) I think that thee are always going to be people out there who judge you but when you find the right guy for you he will love you just as much as you do. Try to become close friends with him before it gets romantic. Find out if he is gay in a non suspicious way. Also, there are many chat rooms and such online for gay people, so make sure you check those out. Good luck!
There is no need to label yourself. So what if you like this boy, it sounds like this is the first and only boy that you have liked. Maybe you're not gay, just cause you're in love with a guy doesn't mean you're gay, it means you're in love. And screw what other people think, So what if you like guys, you're still the same person you were before, but now you're not hiding something like that. I'm gay, i'm a middle linebacker, and felt the same way you do about this kid, but with my QB. I love him to death, people know that. He knows that. He ended up not being gay, but he also ended up being one of my best friends. But i won't sugar coat it, not everyone will accept you, but the ones that do will endup being there with you no matter what. So overall, what i'm trying to say is, go for it. Tell the people closest you first. Like your best friends, then when and if you're ready come out and be who you really are. Gay, bi, who knows who cares you are you, and you happen to like this dude.
I came out at school... It was the usual school full of geeks, popular kids, sportiest etc The first few years I wasn'the sure about being gay and hearing all the other kids saying ewww he likes boys and other stuff haha (they were only joking around with each other though) would worry me! However I decided to come out in my last couple of years and nobody was mean... They all still spoke to me and I became more confident, even started walking home with the cool guys sometimes haha the only thing I worry about is the older generation but they will get used to it... Just speak to the guy... No one should care...It's normal...
Forget the haters.. do whatever you need to to be happy. Try smiling at him and being friendly - try to be his friend. Eventually, if he is also gay, sparks will fly. If not, no problem - you still have a friend.
There are plenty of ignorant, uneducated people in this world who would tell you that being gay is somehow wrong - ignore them. Try to find a group in your area - look online - most universities have gay communities - reach out to them for support.
I'm in the same position as you (sort of). Why don't you try and ask him if he's gay r not be don't look like you are really interested. If he is you might have confidence to come out to him. He may not feel the same way about you but at least you don't bottle it all up and make you even more stressed. If he turns out to be straight you can still tell him. After all Gays are allowed a life on this planet.
If you like this boy.
But are ashamed of what other might say.
Tell this other boy, you want to be friends, and fight the problem together
All I am going to say, if you like the boy. make friends with him. See where it goes.
If it goes too far, and you get ashamed what you are doing with him.
stop seeing him.
I thinks u should go with the moment. See if he looks at u a lot if he like bites his lips etc any small sign that might help. my advice is that u shouldn't tell everyone in your school tell your best friend that way you won't get attention u will not get abused I think u should wait until your 15 by that age you're at a bigger chance of getting a boyfriend without getting humiliated just move on there are a lot of fish in the sea good luck