I like to sing, but I haven't told my parents because I feel like they're going to try to get me to sing in front of people for Christian therapy or whatever. I like to sing and my friends think I'm good, but I really don't want to face my parents with it. I don't want them to comment on it all the time.
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I don't know how your parents are. But they just might surprise you and be supportive. My son loves to sing. I try be supportive . He sings off the wall stuff , but I encourage him to follow his dream . It all depends on how far you want to go with your singing. If want be great singer some day. Then learning as much as you can from as many people as you can. Allot of famous singers sang in church or school choir. . My son did it his own way. Cut a CD album and did a few live concerts. But he did it all by himself. Self promotions , recording , wrote and sang all his own stuff. He didn't want my help. I let him do it his way. It's up to you on what your dreams and goals are. Do what feels best and right for you. Family can be helpful and supportive.
It's up to you. I belief if you good singer and talented share it with the world. If you truly love to sing and you really good then nothing to worry about. Expect for becoming to famous that changes peoples lives the most and can add more pressures to you . Why you think you family look different at you. ? If you really good reach out sing have fun with it. No need to be one of those who look back 10 yrs later and say I might of or could have or should have done singing. But I guess if you really good you could 10 yrs from now go onto America got talent and still win and reach your dream of being a singer. But most them have performed in front of crowds and people . Do let any kind of fear keep you from singing if you truly love singing
It's up to you. I belief if you good singer and talented share it with the world. If you truly love to sing and you really good then nothing to worry about. Expect for becoming to famous that changes peoples lives the most and can add more pressures to you . Why you think you family look different at you. ? If you really good reach out sing have fun with it. No need to be one of those who look back 10 yrs later and say I might of or could have or should have done singing. But I guess if you really good you could 10 yrs from now go onto America got talent and still win and reach your dream of being a singer. But most them have performed in front of crowds and people . Do let any kind of fear keep you from singing if you truly love singing
I'm twelve, I've been singing alone since I was 8 and my brothers have no idea either. Just a few friends. My mom hates it when I don't tell her things. Even little things like not eating all of my food or something. I don't know if I can just bring something on them while I've been hiding it for years...
Oops that is . Do not let any kind if fear keep you from doing what you love doing. If singing is fun , make you happy and brings not to your heart and soul. Do not let fear of the unknown keep you from it. . I once was a good singing. But I let fears of failing keep me from it. . Now I've lost my voice can't sing. But I use to sing in church in chores and when I thought I was alone. My friends would hear me singing and soon I would have a crowd around me. I'd be all zoned out into my music singing then look up see everyone. I'd stop they say don't stop keep going. I stop singing. Now I wonder if I should have kept singing. I regret not singing now
Oops that is . Do not let any kind if fear keep you from doing what you love doing. If singing is fun , make you happy and brings not to your heart and soul. Do not let fear of the unknown keep you from it. . I once was a good singing. But I let fears of failing keep me from it. . Now I've lost my voice can't sing. But I use to sing in church in chores and when I thought I was alone. My friends would hear me singing and soon I would have a crowd around me. I'd be all zoned out into my music singing then look up see everyone. I'd stop they say don't stop keep going. I stop singing. Now I wonder if I should have kept singing. I regret not singing now
I don't know....I'm adopted and feel separated from my brothers being the only girl as well(I know my user's name is pickleguy123 its weird) it's just, I feel like my parents want or expect me to have the same talents and interests as the boys. I think singing makes me happy-relaxes me, but it's kind of a secret if you know what I mean.
Boys always have different interests than girls. Singing and music could be in your gene family blood line. . My great grand father was an adventure explorer. I never knew him. But I'm a traveler explorer . I always got to see what is over that next mountain. . I'm sure your parents got to see you as a girl with goals and dreams outside there own. . Don't try to be a boy or like a boy. I wouldn't think your parents want you to be just like them.. If they are spiritual people then a path of God I can see wanting same interest there. Don't seperate yourself from your family. You got to trust in family. Just don't take the path of drug partying drinking. That usually leads you nowhere and in trouble and jails. Don't do something that will get you arrested . Once arrested. Life changes and life gets tougher. I see nothing wrong with a girl or anyone loving to sing . Singing is good for you. I wish you only the best in life.
Boys always have different interests than girls. Singing and music could be in your gene family blood line. . My great grand father was an adventure explorer. I never knew him. But I'm a traveler explorer . I always got to see what is over that next mountain. . I'm sure your parents got to see you as a girl with goals and dreams outside there own. . Don't try to be a boy or like a boy. I wouldn't think your parents want you to be just like them.. If they are spiritual people then a path of God I can see wanting same interest there. Don't seperate yourself from your family. You got to trust in family. Just don't take the path of drug partying drinking. That usually leads you nowhere and in trouble and jails. Don't do something that will get you arrested . Once arrested. Life changes and life gets tougher. I see nothing wrong with a girl or anyone loving to sing . Singing is good for you. I wish you only the best in life.
Thank you, sir, for your words of encouragement, I'm just not sure, I've always been shy...I know that they're supportive but my brothers will probably look at me differently...I know nothing about my biological family at all. I was born in another country and they won't let us have any info about my bio-mom and dad. I always wonder the chances of us finding eachother again, but I love my family. Whenever I think about what life could have been like I break down. My mom says that I deal with a lot of verbal and mental stress and that thinking about my adoption triggers it all. I don't think she gets it. I love her, but I feel like I'm the odd duck of the bunch. You look at my family and they share the same common intrests and skills-I D K about me...
My parents are big on Christianity, they love Christian music and singing praises, so do I honestly, but I just feel like my parents and my brothers are going to look at me differently and I don't want that- it's easier with a friend. I don't like people commenting on my singing, but I love to do it. I feel like my parents will want me to sing to poor people or do something else religious.