I am a little socialy-akward and unshure of myself. I have a friend that keeps helping me with that and talks with me when I'm lonely. He is a great guy, listens rock like me and he is very goodlooking. I always thought he was handsome and all that, but now I suspect that I am even in love with him. The thing is that last guy I was with hurt me realy badly, I haven't been in any romantic relationships for years and I know my friend doesn't like me in the way I like him. Help me, please! I am really scared of falling in love again and I don't know what to do?! I don't want to scare him and lose him...
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if he doesn't like you in that sense of the word it will be really hard to convince him that feeling the way you do might over whelm him and i think you really have to take this nice and slow cause it could scare him cause he isn't feeling but friendship and thats hard to come to grips with your feelings and you just never know i wouldn't jump into this whole heartedly you don't need to be hurt case he doesn't feel the same i think i would ease into it and just try and search how he feels with out hitting him full force with it hurting yourself isn't worth it
You won't feel alone. You're greater with who you truly are even if some of your hearts desires are being put down by another person. You're smarter than he is and if your feelings are hurt when that boy says he's in love with another girl, fake cry. Its the best thing to do so then he can come crawling back to you!
I do hope things will go the best way it should be whether it won't or will. I wish you the best of luck! :)
if he doesn't like you in that sense of the word it will be really hard to convince him that feeling the way you do might over whelm him and I think you really have to take this nice and slow cause it could scare him cause he isn't feeling but friendship and thats hard to come to grips with your feelings and you just never know I wouldn't jump into this whole heartedly you don't need to be hurt case he doesn't feel the same. I think I would ease into it and just try and search how he feels with out hitting him full force with it hurting yourself isn't worth it.
I hope this helps girly girl! :)
*And yeah, I know, I know, I copied but I didn't have any other smart ass things to say but to copy Softbabe44's answer.*
Its good though! :)
Tnx for your help :)
Good answer!!
Thank you for your help :) Still I'm scared of even being around him. What if my feelings get stronger? I hate feeling alone.