I have been dreaming about this same person for almost 10 years since high school. The moment i saw this person i felt an unexplainable connection and wondered if we had met before. but apparently he had only just moved to our state where he had lived his entire life so I knew that I couldn't have met him before. then the dreams started. the dreams are not always the same. sometimes intimate, sometimes not. Currently i am married (to someone else of course), and even though we have our ups and downs I am mostly content. i have only actually spoken to this guy a few times in person and also on social media. but i never mentioned anything about these dreams. this person also knows a little about me and knows i am married but has never tried to be anything more than fb friends. these dreams will not stop no matter how or what i try to do. I think what i want to know the most is if maybe this person could also feel some type of connection to me as well? and if i knew for sure that he did not feel this way i could move on with my life and maybe these dreams will stop. once he posted on fb that he "keeps having dreams about the same person" and doesn't know why (coincidence?) but he didnt he say who it was. what should I do, or what can this mean? can there be more to these dreams that have been torturing me for so many yrs, or is it just a mere obsession i have created? should I actually make an attempt to approach him about this (somehow without being too awkward and creepy?)