... met but has returned to a respectable career. When we were dating there was tons of fun, playing and great sex. Now that we're married with kids all she does is NAG. The sex is infrequent and when we do have sex she wants it over in 10 minutes. Yes, she's actually told me that. She won't shave down below anymore... except on Monday morning before she leaves for work. She has always had a very flexible work schedule and would come home early. But the past 2 months she's been leaving for work early, staying LATE, and she just wants to "be left alone for a while" when she comes home. She's started buying and wearing sexy underwear, something she never cared about before. So... was I just an idiot for marrying a stripper to begin with? Is she cheating or am I paranoid?