I'm a 65yr old woman with no lgbt prejudice. I'm just trying to find a public bath house that I can use and where somebody will scratch my back. No kidding. I have been widowed for 18 years. My children won't do it as they think it's creepy. Again, I'm not part of the lgbt community except to have been a lifelong advocate. When I google bath house, it always brings me to an lgbt website. I just want to get my back scratched. I've always advocated "love the one you're with". It's hard enough to find someone you love in this big world regardless of gender. Unfortunately, mine died in 2001. I'm hoping this site can help me. My zip is 98606 but I would travel to Portland, OR.