im really worried about it. im 22 and still a virgin. we're together for almost a year. we haven't had sex but we talked about it alot and he respects my decision.he said he can wait. there were times that i almost did it with my exes but i really tried to control myself coz i don't want to end up getting pregnant while on my studies. but now that ive graduated already im ready to do it. i love my boyfriend so much. its just that IM REALLY WORRIED MY BODY ISSUES WOULD TURN HIM OFF. im about 150lbs 5'5 in height, i dont really have a flawless skin. my inner thighs and armpits are dark and i have stretch marks..
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If he does he is a douche bag. Real woman aren't perfect, if he can't deal with that then he has a lot to learn. I guess what I am trying to say is that he might mind, some guys do. If he does then you should be glad to have escaped spending any more time with a shallow, materialistic prick. If he doesn't then you should be glad to have someone who actually gives a shit about you. Either way, you win.
you don't need to be perfect for the others love you!! he will explain!!!!you have to leave your life like the other girls!even you have a flawless skin..ect!be proud about your body and accept all things that no change,i(m pretty sure that he will be normal and Concerted.cuz you are together sinc one year ago !
If he loves you, why would he care about you not having 'flawless skin'? NO ONE has flawless skin hun (: And if your really worried about your stretch marks, get some cocoa butter lotion or something and use it on your stretch marks,It Makes Them Fade, And|Or Go Away, it worked for me(: and no guy wants a little 90lb girl, They like big, strong, indepent woman! So Be Yourself (: Hoped this helped some-what!