I am 43 and have a 19 yr old girl that I am in a fwb relationship. Is this wrong. She made 1st move?

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I dont think it is bad. It depends on u guys, and how u will work it out. Age is just a number for me, and if you guys agree, give it a shot

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You said your relationship was FWB. Age difference? so what? Why should you care what anyone else thinks? As a more permanent relationship, that may be harder to work through. Someone that is 19, and someone that is 43 generally have different goals in life at those respective ages.

My wife likes younger guys. She's 65 and cuts off the minimum age at 40 for her FWB's. That's 25 years difference, your age differential is 24.

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It is not wrong, it simply depends on how compatible you are and how mature she is for her age.

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Theres nothing to discuss . dont you people ever go out on a saturday night ,,

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Well, since she is 19 it I'd not illegal. But by personal opinion many people would consider it 'wrong'. So there is no correct answer to your question, its all personal opinion.

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its not wrong, you cant help who u like.and most girls are attracted to older men , plus at least shes grown

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Absolutely not. Every persons relationships are different. Age is a number but is not a factor in a relationship (or in your case fwb relationship). I am 21 and have been in a serious relationship with a 43 year old man for over a year now. I have connected with him and have more in common with him than anyone I have been with. And I don't care what anyone thinks because I know that I, myself, am happy. And that is all that matters. Do what makes you happy. Everyone else can mind their own damn business.

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If you're having doubts and asking these question to find answers to 'is it wrong' then you already know the answer yourself.

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In the end she will wear you out

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Personally, I think it is acceptable. If you honestly love her, who am I (or anyone else) to get in the way of love. Make sure she is comfortable with everything you do as she is a lot younger.

In my opinion, from the age of 18, what ever age of a partner is acceptable, as long as it is/ above 18. if that makes sense. ❤

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shes a legal consenting adult, so do what you want. just make sure not to marry her until shes at least 30, thats the youngest that women are mature enough for marriage these days.

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If she's still in school, then yes, it is wrong. It's illegal. But if she's graduated, no, it is not wrong, because she's of age. If you love each other, then that's completely okay. Love is love. ~Eva

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Yes its wrong, u are old enough to be her father. You are an adult act like one!

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It is legal, but very much like dating your daughter. You can do it, just please don't get in bed with eachother. That would be wrong in many ways...

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What is all the fuss about? Why does this seem to scare and horrify people?
Maybe it is the fact she made the first move and they imagine their own daughters doing it.

I say enjoy yourselves and ignore the haters.

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