I'm the school holidays I told this girl who I was really good friends with I loved her over a text. When we came back over the holidays she didn't talk to me and a while has pasted since then. I really need help to salvage the situation, we were great friends before and now nothing. I love her but have never had the courage ever to ask her. Again about how she felt. What should I do? P.S she may have a boyfriend.
It's possible she doesn't feel the same towards you. Or maybe she likes you too but feels embarrassed or shy when she sees you now. Give her time. If she still ignores you, say "Look, I know it's been ackward since I told you how I felt about you, but you need to relize it's OKAY! I won't hate you and it WON'T ruin our friendship if you don't feel the same way. What will hurt it is you avoiding me! So please just talk to me!!!"
If no response she's not really your friend and would be a crappy girlfriend. Just don't wast your heart.
i think she might like you or love you but she may also love the boyfriend that she has and dont know who to choose from and so she want to avoid you cause if she has you she thinks it might the relationship with her boyfriend but if she keeps him it may ruin your relationship with you so she may be trying to make up her mind
you should get with her alone and say something like i dont want this to ruin our relationship but i told you how i feel about you, or something...just tell her what you really feel, just be brave enough again to accept if she doesnt feel the same way, ask her maybe if she still wants to be friends or if she feels the same way.
hope all goes well!
I an somewhat relate to you, I did exactly the same thing. I told her I loved her, not sure if she has a boyfriend or not. She didn't talk to me for about 3 months. Until one day I brought it up while she was alone. I just plainly asked her why did she shut herself away? and if it was wrong for me to say that to her. She only said it was really surprising and sudden, in bits through a week, she told me she doesn't have a boyfriend but may want one in her later life. She still hasn't given me a complete straight reply, but at least now we talk a lot, are really close friends again.
Man, I suggest, you choose a good mood and time to just bring it up and ask. But be patient though, not too sudden...