a few years ago i dated this girl and even thought about marrying her but i couldn't get over the fact she had sex with so many guys and a few girls. and she cheated on every guy she been with. since she was a couple years older then me my friends kept saying she was using me for sex and it messed my head up so much i started an agurement with her over everything causing her to leave me. we stayed friends for our daughter and she got married . im also married. one day our daughter asked why we aren't together and after putting her to bed we talked about what our answer was and out of nowhere we kissed. we kept seing each other behind our spouses' backs but we don't know if we should just divorce our husband/wife and get married to each other