Last night, my best friend & I went out to our favourite restaurant to celebrate my birthday. We had a great time. She made mention that the restaurant has a Ladies Night the 1st Tuesday of every month. She then went on to say that apparently it's a lot of fun. I then said.."Let's do it". To that, my friend said she likely couldn't because of how late she gets home on some days. I reminded her that there are times when her schedule has her finishing work at 2pm. "That's true" she said. A few seconds later, I repeated.."Let's do it" (referring to the Tuesday evenings). My friend didn't say anything in response which I found rather odd.
This left me with a weird feeling. Should I just forget about it?
Should I forget about it?
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- 3+ months ago by chatterbox
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Her boyfriend had conversation with my friend about this earlier today. She said she was interested in the Ladies Night, but what's making her reluctant is that she's tired when she gets home from work. She attends my choir performance on a certain Thursday evening, so she's not that tired. Also she said something to him that was not true. When we were about to leave the restaurant some people were very loud. I said to my friend..."wow, they're loud". That's all I said. In reply, she said "oh they're just having fun". I didn't say anything more. She told her boyfriend that I didn't like crowds, then proceeded to tell him what I said, but she told him "I told her to relax, they're just having fun, it's no big deal" I repeat, this is NOT what she said to me in the restaurant.
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There are actually plenty of reasons why your friends are being reluctant. Maybe she is tired after school, perhaps she has plans too or maybe she is already bored with you. Those are the possible reasons. Sometimes, people need space too and I would suggest you ask her why and respect her decision. If she really wanted to go then she will go, but if she is your best friend then she will make up for it. But if she really cant then she has to say why.